We have seen many changes take place in our nation over the
years, but the growth in popularity of the "Tailgate Party," has
amazed me. Whenever there is a sporting event someone will throw a Tailgate
Party. For those who might not know, it is a gathering of like minded friends who gather and share a
meal, talk about the coming event and then watch the event together cheering on
their favorite team (usually with much enthusiasm).
In the past couple of weeks I have listened as my co-workers
have discussed their planned Thanksgiving celebration. It occurred to me for
many it was less about Thanksgiving and more of a tailgate party. They were
more interested in watching the "Big Game" (sporting event) than
being with family. Some were actively planning the big day of shopping
beginning late that night and the next day and Thanksgiving was just something
to get through before that happened. For some Thanksgiving is just a tailgate
party, for some it is an obligation, something to be endured until they can get
to the game or shopping.
I'm not saying that these folks will not enjoy being with
family, but not once did I hear the idea express of anyone actually being
thankful for anything. Again, for many, yet I understand not all, being
thankful has become of secondary importance. We as a nation seem to have
forgotten why the holiday came into existence. We forget to Thank God for all
he has provided and to be thankful for family and the opportunity to spend time
with loved ones.
Again, I realize this is not how everyone feels, but I have
been surprised to listen to those I work with discuss Thanksgiving.
My
prayer is that you will remember what it is about and enjoy friends and family,
but do it with a spirit of Thanksgiving. Thanksgiving for them, Thanksgiving to
our God and Thanksgiving for our free country. As the apostle Paul wrote in Philippians 1:2-3, "Grace
and peace to you from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ. I thank my God
every time I remember you."
May
the Spirit of Thanksgiving live in each of our hearts this year and always.
